musings of wrath

Why is it when you *accidently* do something that hurt someone, they fucking make you have to GUESS what the hell the problem is?

I apparently hurt someone I deeply care about today, and I still don’t know how or why. We’ve joked about the very same subject that seemed to be the problem, but this time, it apparently wasn’t well taken.

What pisses me off is that when I tried to ascertain the problem, I got told that I have hurt this person before, and they’ve never told me this before - ever.

How the hell am I supposed to adjust my behavior when someone doesn’t tell me I’ve done something that hurts them?

I know, I’m supposed to “know everything that might hurt someone”, but you know what? I didn’t apparently learn EVERYTHING about EVERYONE and I can’t be aware 24/7 of what issues might change with someone; let alone what might hurt them one day, when it never has before.

Grr.

Didn’t you get your psychic implant?

What’s just as good is when you can tell they are upset, and you ask, and they’re like “just… it’s nothing. I don’t want to talk about it. It’s me.” when you both know it’s not them, but something you did.

Ugh.. don’t get me started.